Tuesday, October 24, 2023

Review: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

"September 19, 2019 – Started Reading
September 19, 2022 – Shelved
September 19, 2022 – Shelved as: chance-deserve
September 19, 2022 – page 62
16.67% "This books is well written"
June 13, 2023 – page 144
38.71%"

- At first it was a big deal for me because this was given to me as present from my sibling, but with time and discovering different type of courses.
Like Working on yourself, motivation and also going throw pick up communities and pick system. My opinion this is like a revision of what I have already learn you can synthesized it to 5 categories.

Independence
The first three habits aim at developing from dependence to independence (i.e., self-mastery):

Habit 1: "Be proactive"
Proactivity is about taking responsibility for one's reaction to one's own experiences, taking the initiative to respond positively and improve the situation. Covey postulates that "between stimulus and response lies your ability to choose" how to react, and that nothing can hurt a person without the person's consent. Covey discusses recognizing one's circle of influence and circle of concern. Covey discusses focusing one's responses and focusing on the center of one's influence.

Habit 2: "Begin with the end in mind"
Covey discusses envisioning what one wants in the future (a personal mission statement) so one can work and plan towards it, and understanding how people make important life decisions. To be effective one needs to act based on principles and constantly review one's mission statements, says Covey. He asks: Are you—right now—who you want to be? What do you have to say about yourself? How do you want to be remembered? If habit 1 advises changing one's life to act and be proactive, habit 2 advises that "you are the programmer". Grow and stay humble, Covey says.

Covey says that all things are created twice: Before one acts, one should act in one's mind first. Before creating something, measure twice. Do not just act; think first: Is this how I want it to go, and are these the correct consequences?

Habit 3: "Put first things first"
See also: Eisenhower matrix

Covey talks about what is important versus what is urgent. Priority should be given in the following order:

Quadrant I. Urgent and important (Do) – important deadlines and crises
Quadrant II. Not urgent but important (Plan) – long-term development
Quadrant III. Urgent but not important (Delegate) – distractions with deadlines
Quadrant IV. Not urgent and not important (Eliminate) – frivolous distractions
The order is important, says Covey: after completing items in quadrant I, people should spend the majority of their time on II, but many people spend too much time in III and IV. The calls to delegate and eliminate are reminders of their relative priority.

If habit 2 advises that "you are the programmer", habit 3 advises: "write the program, become a leader". Keep personal integrity by minimizing the difference between what you say versus what you do, says Covey.

Interdependence
The next three habits talk about interdependence (i.e., working with others):

Habit 4: "Think win–win"
Seek mutually beneficial win–win solutions or agreements in your relationships, says Covey. Valuing and respecting people by seeking a "win" for all is ultimately a better long-term resolution than if only one person in the situation had gotten their way. Thinking win–win isn't about being nice, nor is it a quick-fix technique; it is a character-based code for human interaction and collaboration, says Covey.

Habit 5: "Seek first to understand, then to be understood"
See also: Rogerian argument
Use empathetic listening to genuinely understand a person, which compels them to reciprocate the listening and take an open mind to be influenced. This creates an atmosphere of caring, and positive problem-solving.

Habit 5 is expressed in the ancient Greek philosophy of three modes of persuasion:

Ethos is one's personal credibility. It's the trust that one inspires, one's "emotional bank account".
Pathos is the empathetic side, the alignment with the emotional trust of another person's communication.
Logos is the logic, the reasoning part of the presentation.
The order of the concepts indicates their relative importance, says Covey.

Habit 6: "Synergize"
Combine the strengths of people through positive teamwork, so as to achieve goals that no one could have done alone, Covey exhorts.

Continual improvement
The final habit is that of continuous improvement in both the personal and interpersonal spheres of influence.

Habit 7: "Sharpen the saw"
See also: Kaizen
Covey says that one should balance and renew one's resources, energy, and health to create a sustainable, long-term, effective lifestyle. He primarily emphasizes exercise for physical renewal, good prayer, and good reading for mental renewal. He also mentions service to society for spiritual renewal.

Covey explains the "upward spiral" model. Through conscience, along with meaningful and consistent progress, an upward spiral will result in growth, change, and constant improvement. In essence, one is always attempting to integrate and master the principles outlined in The 7 Habits at progressively higher levels at each iteration. Subsequent development on any habit will render a different experience and one will learn the principles with a deeper understanding. The upward spiral model consists of three parts: learn, commit, do. According to Covey, one must be increasingly educating the conscience in order to grow and develop on the upward spiral. The idea of renewal by education will propel one along the path of personal freedom, security, wisdom, and power, says Covey.

(P.S.: Most of this concepts you can see them in pick up books
like

The Pickup Artist (By Mystery And Chris Odom), The Game (By Neil Strauss), Rules Of The Game (By Neil Strauss), The Dating Playbook For Men (By Andrew Ferebee), Jason Capital System (Works)
Models (By Mark Manson), Pick-Up Artists’ Secrets (By Pickup Artists Anonymous), The Diary Of A Pick Up Artist (By Adam Lyons), The Art Of Seduction (By Robert Greene), The Mystery Method (By Mystery And Chris Odom) and etc.
Still I am not proposing the concept "go exploit women". I am just saying get your cards right learn stuff about them don't keep lying to yourself and with time you have progress with women. The most important part is after blue pill go for the red pill.)

(Probably somewhere in the near future, I will post article on my thoughts about women so far you can also check out my books where I go over bunch of concepts.)

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Friday, September 15, 2023

Something to Watch

 Something to Watch

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Do you want interesting movie or Tv Show or even 10000 % better, comedy specials to check out or to give a chance to certain kinds of comedians. After all you want to watch something and learn, right?
So give a chance to:



Movies/TV Shows

  1. The 9th Life of Louis Drax (2016) (A psychologist who begins working with a young boy who has suffered a near-fatal fall finds himself drawn into a mystery that tests the boundaries of fantasy and reality.)
  2. Gold (I) (2016) (Kenny Wells, a prospector desperate for a lucky break, teams up with a similarly eager geologist and sets off on a journey to find gold in the uncharted jungle of Indonesia.)
  3. Shepherds and Butchers (2016) (A lawyer takes on a case of a prison guard in South Africa who is traumatized by the executions he's witnessed.)
  4. Genius (2016) (A chronicle of Max Perkins's time as the book editor at Scribner, where he oversaw works by Thomas Wolfe, Ernest Hemingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald and others.)
  5. American Assassin (2017) (After the death of his girlfriend at the hands of terrorists, Mitch Rapp is drawn into the world of counterterrorism, mentored by tough-as-nails former U.S. Navy S.E.A.L. Stan Hurley.)
  6. Downsizing (2017) (A social satire in which a man realizes he would have a better life if he were to shrink himself to five inches tall, allowing him to live in wealth and splendor.)
  7. The Snowman (2017) (Detective Harry Hole investigates the disappearance of a woman whose scarf is found wrapped around an ominous-looking snowman.)
  8. Small Crimes (2017) (A disgraced former cop, fresh off a six-year prison sentence for attempted murder - returns home looking for redemption but winds up trapped in the mess he left behind.)
  9. Take Your Pills (2018) (Every era gets the drug it deserves. In America today, where competition is ceaseless from school to the workforce and everyone wants a performance edge, Adderall and other prescription stimulants are the defining drugs of this generation.)
  10. Red Eye (2005) (A woman is kidnapped by a stranger on a routine flight. Threatened by the potential murder of her father, she is pulled into a plot to assist her captor in a political assassination.)
  11. The Jim Gaffigan Show (2015-2016) (Comedy about a husband and wife trying to raise their five kids in a New York City two-bedroom apartment.)
  12. Sneaky Pete (2015-2019) (A con man on the run from a vicious gangster takes cover by assuming the identity of his prison cellmate Pete, and reuniting with Pete's estranged family, which threatens to drag him into a world just as dangerous as the one he's escaping.)
  13. The Blacklist (2013–2023) (A new FBI profiler, Elizabeth Keen, has her entire life uprooted when a mysterious criminal, Raymond Reddington, who has eluded capture for decades, turns himself in and insists on speaking only to her.)
  14. Breaking Bad (2008-2013) (A chemistry teacher diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer turns to manufacturing and selling methamphetamine with a former student in order to secure his family's future.)
  15. Stacked (2005-2006) (A party girl starts a new life as an employee at a family-run bookstore.)
  16. Monk (2002–2009) (Former cop Adrian Monk was a star officer till he develops an obsessive-compulsive disorder. Now he struggles with simple everyday tasks but continues to investigate cases.)
  17. Addicted to Sexting (2015) (A compelling look at the rise and proliferation of this social phenomenon from several varying perspectives and how the lives of those engaged in it are affected.)
  18. David Lynch: The Art Life (2016) (Artist and filmmaker David Lynch discusses his early life and the events that shaped his outlook on art and the creative process.)

Comedy

  1. Robin Williams: Come Inside My Mind (2018) (An intimate look into the life and work of the revered master comedian and actor, Robin Williams.)
  2. Dave Attell: Captain Miserable (2007 TV Special) (Dave Attell Performs stand up comedy at the Lincoln Theater in Washington D.C.)
  3. The Jeselnik Offensive (2013) (Anthony Jeselnik has celebrity guests on his show, where they talk about political topics in their own way. And of course, Anthony Jeselnik acts offensive.)
  4. Bill Burr: Why Do I Do This? (2008 TV Special) (In his first stand-up special, Comedian Bill Burr takes aim at the stuff that drives us crazy, political correctness gone haywire, and girlfriends; or as he calls them, "relentless psycho robots.")
  5. An Honest Liar (2014) (The life and career of the renowned stage magician turned scientific skeptic of the paranormal, James Randi.)
  6. Bill Maher: Victory Begins at Home (2003 TV Special) (Bill Maher stars in his sixth HBO stand-up special, premiering LIVE from the Hudson Theater in New York!)
  7. Elon Gold: Chosen & Taken (Elon Gold unleashes his sharp, biting humor in his brand new comedy special Chosen & Taken. His manic wit celebrates the absurdities people can achieve.)
  8. Why Would You Put That on the Internet? - Rob Gavagan (2013) 
  9. The Fluffy Movie: Unity Through Laughter (2014) (A comedy concert film that captures the on-stage performance and inspirational success story of Gabriel "Fluffy" Iglesias.)
  10. Tom Papa: Live in New York City (Comedy Central Records, 2012) (Comedian Tom Papa hilariously talks about Facebook and other topics.)
  11. Tom Papa: Freaked Out (2013) (A frequent guest of late night talk shows, Tom Papa showcases his uniquely optimistic humor in his first EPIX comedy special, executive produced by Rob Zombie. In HD.)
  12. Jim Jefferies: Alcoholocaust (2010 TV Special) (*Alcoholocaust: (Meaning: The aftermath of a drinking party, usually resulting in every available horizontal surface being covered in empty booze containers, spilled beverages and a general sticky alcoholic residue.) Jim Jefferies, the globally renowned Australian stand-up, returns to Just For Laughs with his brand new solo show. Alcoholocaust includes some of Jim's favourite wild antics over the past year. As always, his material is set in reality, which is what provides him with his trademark brutally frank style. Among other things, you will hear about a hilarious yet touching true story involving his friend's severely disabled brother, plus Jim's traditional pet peeves - religion & idiots.)
  13. Jim Jefferies: I Swear to God (2009 TV Special) (Politically incorrect Australian comedian Jim Jefferies performs.)
  14. Mind of Mencia (2005-2008) (Carlos Mencia is speaking his mind and taking no prisoners. Enter the Mind of Mencia and get ready for a merciless mix of up close stand-up, unconventional street interviews, and shocking commercial parodies.)
  15. The Little Tiny Quiz Of The Lockdown 2020 (with host Jimmy Carr)
  16. The Roast Of Bert Kreischer 2023 (In Whitney Cummings Presents: The Roast of Bert Kreischer, Whitney brought together some of today’s greatest comedians– Jim Norton, Big Jay Oakerson, Tony Hinchcliffe, Rachel Feinstein, Donnell Rawlings, and Trevor Wallace– to pay tribute to the legendary Bert “The Machine” Kreischer. We’re counting down some of the most unforgettable moments from an unforgettably funny night.)

  17. The Roast of Whitney Cummings (TV Special 2023) (After hosting an all-star roast of Bert Kreischer, it was only fair that Whitney Cummings put herself in the hot seat this time around. On Mother’s Day 2023, no less. Comedians Jim Norton and Donnell Rawlings returned to join the hilarious Hannah Stocking, Dan Levy, Annie Lederman, Bob the Drag Queen, Luis J. Gomez, Robin Tran, and Amanda Knox in roasting the guest of honor before Whitney herself took the stage. Buckle up! We’re counting down the best moments from The OnlyFans Roast of Whitney Cummings!)
  18. Andrew Dice Clay: No Apologies (1993 TV Special) (The "Diceman" is renowned for his sexist comedy routines and frequent use of obscenities. This performance was filmed live at Westbury Music Fair in Long Island, New York.)
  19. Andrew Dice Clay: For Ladies Only (1992 TV Special) (Andrew Dice Clay's second solo HBO stand-up comedy special taped at the Theatre of Performing Arts in Philadelphia.)
  20. Russell Peters: Red, White and Brown (2008 TV Special) (Recorded live before a sold-out audience at the WaMu Theater at Madison Square Garden, Russell Peters delivers material from his record-breaking "Homecoming Tour," with tales of his travels to India and Dubai, as well as his own issues with body hair, the World Cup, and yet another take on cheap Indians.)
  21. Mike Birbiglia: Thank God for Jokes (2017 TV Special) (Mike Birbiglia tells stories about his life as a semi-famous comedian/filmmaker and reflects on the meaning of good or bad jokes.)
  22. Billy Connolly: Erect for 30 Years (1999 Video) (The highlights from Billy Connolly's thirty years as a stand up comedian are collected together here, along with a previously unseen live performance in Glasgow by the Big Yin.)


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Monday, September 4, 2023

Review: Genius: The Life and Science of Richard Feynman

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For me such kinda author is kinda market scammer.
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It's similar to the authors like,
Bob Proctor, The Secret movie and etc.

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